
From Gorilla’s Guides I read this article and felt that if the shoe were on the other foot, we, as Americans, would feel exactly the same way. The exhilaration of being around mighty military weaponry and those cool fatigues with grenades and machine guns. But, after time, the “coolness” wears off and you are faced with the reality of the situation…
Those military men are in our country and no matter how many pictures we see of them holding Iraqi kids, their job is NOT to coddle and take care of children (as I wrote earlier this year about John Gebhardt shown above). Their job is to kill people. THAT, Mr and Mrs America, is precisely what we train, arm and pay them to do.
So, when they realize that they are endangered, they stop protecting and holding the little kids and start blasting (as is told in the story below).
In so many words, those pictures are very short snap shots of men who have a moment of humanity. But believe me that they know their job and role. When it comes to the nut cuttin’, they will drop those little kids and start blowing shit up. And the children get caught in the middle and suffer.
When someone go through any internet searching machine, pictures of US soldiers playing with children and exchanging gifts, is a very common image that brings out the question: Is that a normal behavior or just an isolated propaganda?
Since the US-led invasion in 2003, Iraq suffered from a serious economic crisis but it never took away the hope of thousands of Iraqis, mainly children countrywide.
An Image of Freedom
Iraqi children previously saw the US military image as a perfect freedom symbol during Saddam Hussein’s regime. Foreign movies always depicted American forces as the most structured and strongest among all military troops worldwide.
When the US troops first arrived in Iraq, a relationship started to shape between them and kids, mainly in Baghdad, but after a couple of months, this nice and friendly relation gradually started to disappear.
Exchange of candies and flowers was a nice way found to alleviate the tense conditions that was ongoing in the occupied country. Before the US fighting against resistance groups in Fallujah in 2004, families were keen to let their children get closer to the American soldiers, exchange gifts or play football.
Reasons Why Kids Get Closer
“Nowadays, kids get closer to US soldiers either because they are too afraid to run away when they are approaching them or because they feel excited when seeing military equipments like tanks and so on, and these tanks weren’t probably the reason why someone at their family was killed,” said Abbas Jomaa, an aid worker working with children rights in Iraq.
“US soldiers weren’t able to build a nice relationship with the Iraqis because they lack knowledge in how to deal with human beings rather than the ones living in their own country. It strongly differs from British troops that are withdrawing from Iraq without leaving too many destructive memories among southern residents,” he added.
According to children and parents, when Iraqi kids get closer to US troops there is a hidden interest. Either because they are just looking for candies or because they have been sent as spies by resistance groups but not because they see them as heroes.
“The Idea of Seeing Them Again Gives Me Fear”
“When US troops invaded Iraq I was seven-years old and it was a fantastic feeling to get close to them, try to speak and laugh at their funny jokes and the couple of Arabic words they knew but today, the idea of seeing them again gives me fear, especially after looking behind and seeing how many people they killed since they invaded our country,” Teif Omar Al-Mishahda, 13, a student in Baghdad, said.
“My youngest brother gets excited when he sees an American soldier but he is too little to understand what they have done to us and it is better to let him think it is a good thing rather than destroy his dreams in a so early period of his life,” he claimed.
Parents say that directly after the US-invasion, they didn’t feel any kind of danger towards the proximity their children were trying to build with the US soldiers but by time, they realised that they weren’t what they had promised and so, they preferred to keep their children away.
“US soldiers try to be nice and I believe that many of them really are, but I can’t really take the risk because when they feel in danger, they wont care if my son is close to them and will leave him in the middle of the cross-fire. That exactly is what happened to my nephew who was getting some candies from them and when they felt threatened by a car passing by, they started shooting and my nephew ended handicapped,” said Ranuah al-Gayyara, 38, a housewife and mother of two.
“They were supposed to bring peace and democracy but what they gave us was just suffering, misery, pain and hunger,” she noted. “I don’t think it is clever to leave your kid close to someone like that.”
An Artificial Relationship
Maruan Jahnoon, one of the few psychologists who remained in Iraq, said that the relation between Iraqi children and US soldiers has always been artificial as well as with other country residents.
“American soldiers weren’t clever since they invaded Iraq. They had a chance to gain the trust from the majority of Iraqis. Children wanted to be close to them all the time and when they were passing by any street, children could be seen running and smiling after them. Where is that now?” he asked.
“In less than one year, US soldiers destroyed all the remaining kindness Iraqis were having towards them. If they knew how to get those childrens’ trust, families would have followed their kids’ confidence and would not have taken them away. When I ask any patient aging below fifteen years old, 95 percent of them say that they are afraid from the Americans and hope to see them out of Iraq,” he added.
“That’s what they will leave as a memory from Iraq beside death and the incapacity to help building a better life for the ones they said that had came to help improve their living conditions or build democracy,” Jahnoon said.
US soldiers aren’t allowed to speak with the press without their superiors’ authorisation, but in an anonymous conversation, an American soldier said that he carries true feelings for all Iraqi children and that he is sorry if another colleague one day was responsible of takng away the smile of an Iraqi child.
“Today I Just Wish to See Them Away”
Khalid Abdullah, 14, is one of the hundreds of children that one day fell in love with the US soldiers but today, it’s just a different story.
“On the same day, two years ago, I was playing with the soldiers and got some candies, I came home happy to tell my mother. When I entered the house I saw her crying and hitting her head and soon realised that my father had been killed one hour before by American troops while he was driving his cab. How can I get close or admire someone who killed my father?” he asked.
“The candies they gave me that day turned into something bitter. Today I just hope to see them away and never would dare speak with them again,” he added.
Source: US Soldiers and Iraqis, Friends? – By Afif Sarhan in Iraq – IslamOnline.net
About: Afif Sarhan is a Brazilian Lebanese freelance writer and reporter, specialized in covering humanitarian issues, politics, gender discrimination, and minority rights. He is also an IslamOnline.net correspondent in Iraq.